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Oprah's Best Life: The Good, the Bad, and the Ugly

Oprah started 2009 with a series called "Oprah’s Best Life." It covered five aspects of life that she believes are key to living the best life possible. One of the topics, spirituality, piqued my attention. Last Wednesday, Oprah offered a live webcast on the topic of spirituality, where she took questions from people that called/wrote in. I watched the webcast (available in her archives by clicking here) and was struck by several things which I’ll call the good, the bad and the ugly.

Going in reverse order, I’ll mention "The Ugly" first. I was discouraged by the poor Biblical scholarship of the so-called experts. Particularly Rev. Ed Bacon, an Episcopal priest, who should have had the most Biblical training. The comment that stood out to me was when he was discussing the notion that the Bible is not the only authority in your life; that you should listen to your inner voice as one of your authorities. He went on to claim that Jesus himself set aside parts of scripture "when they were not in alignment with the compassionate God he knew." The truth is, Jesus frequently talked about the judgmentmental aspect of God (see Matthew 25:31-46 for one of many examples). True, God is a a compassionate God, but He is also a just (and therefore judging) God.

This brings me to "The Bad." Oprah talked quite a bit about how it is impossible for God to be both condemning and loving at the same time. Honestly, I don’t see a contradiction here. It’s actually quite simple: 

Loving: God creates the world and creates us in His image. He designs a paradise where we can live in constant relationship with Him.

Condemning: Adam and Eve sin. The rest of humanity follows suit. God banishes Adam and Eve from the garden, and sets the penalty of sin: death and eternal separation from God.

Loving: Because God loves us so much, he creates an incredible pathway back to Him through Jesus. In fact, he’s even willing to allow Jesus to die so that we would be saved from the death that we deserve!

Condemning: Anyone who does not accept the free gift of Jesus will spend eternity separated from God.

Loving: Anyone who does accept the free gift of Jesus will spent eternity with the God who loves us.

Finally, "The Good." Throughout the whole webcast, the overall feeling I got from both Oprah and the experts was love. These people truly wanted to help everyone who called/wrote in asking for help. They truly wanted humanity to live a better life. The problem was, their desire to be all-inclusive left them unable to dispense advice that reflected God’s actual representation of Himself through the Bible. Unfortunately, we were left with positive, yet shallow insights from well-meaning but misguided advisors. Nonetheless, I think Christians can stand to learn a lot from the loving approach these folks demonstrated. Using a theme from the webcast, let’s let God do the judging and condemning; our job is to lovingly demonstrate, and point people to, Jesus.

last updated: Jan 19 2009 - 11:54am

Easy Spirituality

Submitted by vpage77 on January 21, 2009 - 2:08pm.
I started to remove Oprah from my tv viewing list when she promoted the Secret. She rubs me the wrong way by her easy spirituality without any thought of what is true. She seems, from what I can tell, a woman who promotes what is easy; popular and makes you feel good. That doesn’t really mean it’s what God wants. While I believe hers and others intentions were pure (or of the spirit of helping others), I agree with disagreeing with the desire to be all-inclusive. Being a follower of Christ comes with an exclusivity. Knowing that salvation is a gift, it is a gift that has to be accepted by believing Jesus died on the cross for your sins. Anything less or more than that is just not true. You would have to believe that the Bible is the innerant word of God. Oprah has never personally acknowledged (from what I can remember or find) a personal relationship with God or spoke of a conversion by which she accepted Christ as her savior. Those are my two or three cents :) Thanks for a great blog post!

Christ as our focus

Submitted by jstlmt on January 23, 2009 - 11:54am.
I only saw a small portion of the webcast. However, putting that together with what I know about what Oprah endorses, I agree with the previous post. I think we as believers need to remember to be patient and loving in our interactions with others. In the end, God is the one who draws us to Him and the acceptance of His Son. So, I don’t think we should be forceful or harsh, but Christlike as we serve and interact with others. However, as we are used by God to share His love, my concern is that we must be focused on Christ. I actually think Oprah’s kind of spirituality can be dangerous because this is not her focus. Her “easy; popular and makes you feel good” flavor of spirituality might encourage a path down a continual pursuit of “happiness” and a reliance on faulty resources. Even with what seems to be somewhat of a recent push to step out of ourselves and help others, I am afraid the motive is wrong. I fear it still comes back to making us “feel good”. It makes me sad (and is scary) to see so many people lulled into this “easy” whatever feels right to me and makes me happy kind of attitude. Worse yet, that we ultimately can do everything by relying on our own strength. We need a reliance on God and His truth in our lives.

Thanks for the post!

Submitted by Nate Carter on January 27, 2009 - 4:47pm.

Thanks for the post! Actually, I don’t question Oprah’s motives for helping others. I truly think she wants to make others happy for their own good (not just to make herself feel good). I really appreciate your comment about being focused on Christ. In America, it’s counter-cultural to do this (after all, we’re a country built on the right to pursue happiness). However, I think other cultures "get it." Those of us who have been to Mexico or Serbia saw how people bent over backwards to meet our needs and make us comfortable. They put their entire "focus" on us to serve us, which is just a small step away from putting our focus on Christ to serve Him.